
“Be a man!! Don’t weep like a girl dude! “
“Why so much makeup? Guys don’t put so much of it!”
“You help your mom,wife in house chores! That’s commendable and surprising!!”
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May I ask why??
Why can’t men cry??
They’re made of metals.. aren’t they? When one trembles and fall down ..
The knee scratches and bleeds.. it hurts!
And it hurts irrespective of gender!
Or you’ll now say the blood’s aware of the knee’s owner?
When love breaks a heart.. the heart cries ..
Let it be a girl or any other guy!
Girls wearing makeup – “oh wow! So pretty and gorgeous.. “
When a guy loves to wear it, why’s there a whisper or fuss?
Makeup can uplift ones mood,
Let it be a lady or a dude!
Girls being told “you should learn house chores, cooking meals and to wash clothes”
When a guy learns the same, voice comes “You know how to cook? Impressive! You help at house works? Wow! You know how to sweep dirty floors? Great man!!”
Why? Aren’t the guys even living with family in their home? Aren’t they a part of it?
Why would he listen adjectives that highlights this works differently and not a part of growing up?
Cooking, washing clothes aren’t gender based works anymore!
It’s a basic need! Guys feel hungry too and might want to cook for selves or for family, wanna wash clothes too!
BE A MAN!! They say? What’s the definition of “Being a Man” then?
•You are a man..you can’t cry,
•You are a man you should know to drive!
•You only earn bread, wife will cook it!
•Don’t share everything that hurts.. you can handle your pain alone man!!
Is this what a man is? Is it what makes a MAN?
NO!!!
A man is also human, his heart cries too!
His eyes also sheds tears.
When the heart breaks it makes inner noise inside him too!!
He can highlight his cheekbones , can go beauty salons, can cook, can wash dishes! And if needed can hit back the critics too!
Don’t bind his life in the quote saying “Be a man!!”
Rather give the space for him to be a Human!
A human is always a human!
Doesn’t matter men or women
The social stereotypes limits them
Limits them from being ownselves!
A real man is the one,
• Who can choose to wear makeup or not
• Who can choose pink,neon or any color apart from blue also as his favourite if he wants
• Who can earn as well as cook bread and food
• And the one who if needed can CRY HIS HEART OUT!!
• Most importantly if also he doesn’t drive a car, can STAND UP WHEN THERE’S SOMETHING HAPPENING WRONG OR RUDE!!
Man who can both cry out loud and protest out loud is an actual man!!
Any human who can cry out is strongest in the clan !
Those who aren’t allowed to do so, are just ones whom you are trying to make a robot with a cover of
“so called Man”
That’s simply an outstanding piece of beautifully ornamented words…✨
Gender stereotype starts from a mother’s womb and continues till the ash in the crematorium…
That’s a sad part of our society.
But, as long as these type of mindset as described in the poem, our darkened society will always hold a earthen lamp of hope
And be a dope 😄💙
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Very well put together abir!! Thanks for your wise words over here ✨
Glad you loved it! Wishing society to be a dope always!! 💙😃
Thanks again for always supporting
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Always welcome and there near your foyer of need 💙
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Very powerful! Outstanding work, Ahiri!
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Thank you so much AB! glad u liked it! Means a lot coming from you!
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A thing which lot off people need to understand 💯
Very well written 👏 👌
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Wrote down what I felt I should! Glad you liked it! Thanks a lot Vani❤️!
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Really Ahiri u nailed it !!! Excellent work ! Each n every line means a lot. I’m glad to read it.❤️
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Really Ahiri u nailed it !!! Excellent work ! Each n every line means a lot. I’m glad to read it.❤️
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Arreyyy🤧🤧!!
So glad u came across it somnathhh!! Thanks a lot for reading it!! So glad u loved it!
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So much talented 🌟🌟just keep writing. U r very creative 👑💓
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Thanks a lottt re!! ❤️
Thanks for always being there supporting me
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You Nailed It Girl!!
Reality You wrote Perfectly which Our Generation face actually!! Trust me this is so Dam Good & worth Reading! 💘
Keep it up Muchu!I genuinely loved it! Keep Writing & Keep Shining Best wishes I love you Star❤
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Damnn🤧!! Your words always means a lot to me much!uk that! Thanks motivating always and I’m so glad u loved it! I love you girl ❤️
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Beautifully written..
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Thank you so much sir 😌🙏
Means a lot
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You have aptly raised this age-old issue of gender discrimination. But now things are changing for the better. The mindset is changing fast. When I was in eighth standard, my mom made me learn how to make roti and sabzi. Now I’m not required to make, but I can do even now. I think learning anything is welcome. As regards crying, I think a better and stronger person is one who doesn’t suppress his or her emotions. I loved the way you have dealt with the issue.👍💖
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Absolutely!! It’s really changing for better now and hope it’ll continue to.
Yes cooking is simply a basic need , So that we don’t have to depend on anyone to feed us when we are alone..
And very truly said sir, a person who doesn’t suppress his/her emotion is the strongest one!
Thanks a lottt sir! Thank you so much for reading it and for living such a beautiful and thoughtful comment! It means a lot to me! ❤️🙏
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It’s my pleasure 💖
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“A human is always a human!
Doesn’t matter men or women” That sums it all up. Wonderful write, Ahiri. ❤️
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Yes, it does ✨
Thank you so much for reading❤️!
Glad you liked.. means a lot
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You’re most welcome. Is always my pleasure. ❤️
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This should get out more. Really loved the way you addressed this stereotypical issue.
I hope there will be a change.
I really hope.
Well-written, Ahiri.✨🤍
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Means a lott!! Thank you so much for reading and dropping your valuable comment!
It’s Changing for better now.. you’re right let’s hope it’ll change completely ❤️
Glad you liked it.. thanks agaiiinnn
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I’m glad I found the post.🤗
Always, Ahiri🤝
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Even I’m glad u did.. thanks 🤧!
Lots of love
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🤍🤍🥰
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This is “out of the box” writing… very well penned… Beautifully portrayed the message which one need to understand.. Excellent work…
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Thank you so much sir! Means a lot to me❤️
So glad u thought it to be out of the box and I was able to do justice with the writing ❤️thanks again 🙏
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It was indeed a great writing and deserves such appreciation… Keep writing…
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Great post
Thanks dear
Society demands so much
It’s good to do what you can
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Thank you so much for this words!! It really really means a lot ❤️
Glad u went through the writing and liked it
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You are most welcome dear ❤️
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Thank you so much for “cheering up” for me, friend. 👀
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❤️ means a lot
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Our society has decided what a man and a woman should do!!
They have already decided certain things and when a person wants to do something of their choice, they laugh about it!!
What I hate the most is when people say stuff like “don’t cry like women” or hey, “why she is dressed like a man”
Such mentality needs to change
also, a great work, best wishes
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What you said is very very true! And I totally agree to that!
Slowly though but let’s hope it changes in a good way..😊
And yes, thankyou so much for visiting the blog and reading it and for leaving such a great comment! Means a lott♥️
Wish you positivity and happiness
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Best wishes for you exams 🙂
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ThankYou so muchh🥺
Having pre boards from tomorrow and the boards on april.. so m already in a pressure cooker🤣
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You will do well!! I wonder how they are taking pre-boards and boards back to back. Take good care of your mental health. Break a leg
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